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If they have done the process in a “seasoning” manner, they should plan to marry as practical – with mutual agreement.
I say this so that pre-marital sex will not be a temptation.
What the expression really is saying is – “I am in love with the idea of being in love” AND “I really think you are the answer for ME”! This should be mutually agreed to and clearly understood by both Christian singles. It is very important that each person have their own accountability group of their own gender.
The progress of the Christian dating relationship should be shared so that their objectivity and accountability can be a valuable resource to the couple. Once a couple is satisfied that there is something to take to the next level, the couple should develop a plan in how they can best get to know each other in “real settings” not just in Christian dating situations.
This often means that a healthy bonding is not taking place and the emphasis is upon self-satisfaction in this Christian dating relationship. It is very important to look for CHARACTER issues in each other during this stage of Christian dating.
Give yourself enough time and enough settings where character issues can surface. Individuals can “mask” character issues for an extended period of time – especially a few months during the fantasy period of Christian dating.
It serves as a basis for building the Christian dating relationship into as healthy a one as possible BEFORE marriage.
(I highly recommend the inventories developed by Dr. There are many counselors who can provide Christian singles with insights into the results found in these inventories.
There is no set time frame for a pre-engagement period.For example: Can the couple enjoy their alone time as well as their together time?If not, what is the “force” at play that is “pushing”?But character is the foundation upon which commitment is built.Character does not change just because one gets married.