Dating married man going through divorce
All he will focus on is that he has been wronged and will want to seek justice anyway he can.He may try to even the score by fighting about custody of the children or how to split the marital estate.
So when I write “Stop chasing 10’s, marry the 7’s,” and my good friend Lance writes this reply: Most hot girls are crazy, that’s for sure, but I wouldn’t advise anyone to date a 7.
While I’m an emotional guy, my advice is based on logic and evidence.
Generally, if you’re disagreeing with me, it’s because something I said hit you emotionally and rubs you the wrong way. It doesn’t negate the fact that my observations are just that – observations.
Dating during divorce can poison the spirit of cooperation and affect your life for a long time after the divorce is final (and possibly after your boyfriend is history).
Legal reasons not to date before divorce As far as the courts are concerned, you are still legally married until the divorce is finalized.
That is, unless someone compromises – and finds a lower paying job (a 7) that has much better benefits and quality of life.3) If the average guy is – logically – a 5, he usually thinks he’s an 8…and that he be dating a 10. There’s the rush of the chase, the thrill of victory, and the smugness of showing off your hot catch to all your friends – for a moment. He’s probably going to be arrogant and stubborn – that’s what happens when you’re a success at everything you do. And you’re merely overlooking his considerable flaws because of how hot he is. The most tempestuous relationship I ever had was also with the hottest woman I ever dated – so hot that she had to hide her profile on to stem the tide of emails. And because when she wasn’t acting crazy, she was actually a good girlfriend. You’re looking for a relationship to endure for 30 years.