Online dating services for fat
Yes, I go shopping and I see many of the dreadful non-options out there.
Don’t take the easy route and simply go with the crap out there because you didn’t want to invest in the time to look your very best.
I chuckled recently when a client of mine called me the Energizer Bunny in response to a statement I made about a singles event that I was hosting in Minneapolis, MN.
There is a big misconception that fat people are not active and don’t have energy; it is up to you to show people otherwise. I see far to many overweight singles wearing clothing that does not flatter them.
I am here to loudly and proudly tell you my mother was wrong and all the messaging out there that has a similar tone to it is wrong as well.
There is an overabundance of love, dating and marriage happiness and overall life happiness out there for a fat, overweight, plus size …
Then as we get further into the coaching session I discover there were far more reasons than the person’s weight that lead to the lack of mutual attraction. Understand that being an overweight single person does not make you unattractive.
Do you want it to be “I’m confident, I love myself, I care what I look like” or do you want to tell the world you have given up, you don’t care about yourself and neither should they?
Show them that not only is it important to you that you feel good about yourself but also you care that you look good.
Learn to dress your body to hide your flaws and accentuate the parts of your body that rock.
Keep yourself well groomed and have a high level of personal hygiene.
The choice of clothing and style is one of the greatest messengers that overweight people have.