Rules middle age dating
If you're an animal lover, you might want your potential mate to be one too.If you're not, seeing a pic of a prospect with a long-haired cat or four dogs might be enough to check him or her off the list immediately. Otherwise, like with the age or status thing, you might be accused of false advertising.This is particularly true, I'm told, when it comes to a person's age and, unfortunately, sometimes the marital status as well. You may be tempted to fudge your age or status but let me just tell you that there will be no easy way to disclose the truth without risking anger and mistrust from the person you deceived.
Cathy advises either asking a friend who has a really good eye to take you out for a photo shoot or invest in a professional photographer.
And take photos outside in nature or with you doing one of your favorite activities.
She says to avoid the studio because it looks too contrived and, if I can add my own two cents, avoid shots of you where an ex had been in the shot with you but you cut them out but his or her arm or hand is unmistakably wrapped around you.
And it's no longer stigmatized to say you met on Match.com, JDate, Our Time or Plenty of Fish. Knowing what site to go to can help but you also may just have to experiment with a few different sites to see which one feels best and seems like it has kindred spirits.
People often tell me they want different things now that they're older. Perhaps they were with an addict so this time they just want to be with someone who is mellow (maybe even boring); or, perhaps they had been with someone who didn't "meet" them as a partner and now they want to hold out for their intellectual equal. I find that people over 50 tend to believe that no one would possibly be interested in them because they perceive themselves to be "old." The good news is 50 is the new 30!